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Female Pen Pals

Find Female pen pals here at InternationalPenPal.com. These are non-prisoner, general public pen pals from all walks of life and of all ages over 18.

Why Female Pen Pals?

By Vinny Appleby

Let me begin by explaining why I've specified that these female pen pals are non-prisoner penpals. It's simply because if you do a search at your favourite search engine for 'female pen pals' you will find that by far most of the results returned are for prison pen pals. So, as this page isn't about prison pen friends I wanted that to be clear and for it to stand out from the crowd. In fact, if you are actually searching for prisoners then we have a page about that here: Female Prison Pen Pals.

I'd also like to make it clear that I have absolutely nothing against female pen pals in prison, it's just that this page isn't about them, that's all.

So, turning to the task in hand, here are my current thoughts about female pen pals. Firstly, it seems to me that if you are searching for girls or women to be pen pals then you probably fall into one of three groups. The first of these is those women seeking someone female as an internet friend or companion, someone to chat to as part of a wider circle of friends. Perhaps such penpals would share the same hobbies or have other things in common.


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Secondly, you might be searching for female pen pals if you are a man and would like to get to know women on a friendship basis, perhaps with a longer term view to finding someone special once you get to know your pen friends better. This is a good course of action, and perhaps avoids the full-on 'dating' approach with its accompanying aspects disliked by some people.

The third group of people seeking female pen pals and into which you might fit, would be lesbian ladies looking for similar to themselves.

For these reasons it is important to specify the sexual orientation of the people you are seeking when you carry out a search using the panel above right. That way mistakes and any potential confusion about why you are using the site and who you are looking for can be avoided.

The good news is that women with all approaches to finding a female pen pal and all reasons for being at the site should be well represented, so you have an excellent opportunity, whether you are male or female, to connect with the kind of people you are looking for.

You know, it strikes me that the term 'female pen pals' has something of a ring to it through its directness, and sounds on the one hand so much better than 'women pen pals' while on the other -- again the result of its directness -- it has the potential to sound a little hard, less about friendship perhaps and more about getting straight to the point. So, again be careful that the women you contact through the search box are looking for what you are looking for.

In conclusion, if you are looking for female pen pals then you must be clear why, as well as taking into account the reasons for being there and the expectations of females listed on the site themselves.

Try out the panel above right now and get to know new female pen pals today. And please don't forget to

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Female pen pals sites and resources:

Female Pen Pals
An interesting page about female pen pals that looks at different countries and cultural backgrounds that might make -- for some reason or other -- good penpals (scroll down to reach the information on that page).

Female Pen Pals from Poland
This website is the first you come across (at the time of writing) when searching for female pen pals at Google that isn't about prison pen pals (see my comments above). Why a search for a female pen pal should bring up so many prisoner sites is beyond me. Fine, if that's what you're looking for, but if you're not...

I want a penfriend to write to...
For good measure, here's a pen pals / penfriend page from our own site, which suggests Japanese pen pals as a good option.


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